Your welcome. Heheh, I like having multiple sides to my dragonborn as well. The side that hunts kills dragons and saves people, the side that hunts down the thalmor out of revenge (hes an altmer ) and the side that chills with his wife at the college.
Admittedly I haven't reached that part of the quest yet, I tend to avoid the main storyline like the plague and have my character wander off into the wilds for months at a time; I doubt her spouse even recalls being married
Haha, 2 of my 4 housemates who play are like that. Avoid the main quest as you say like the plague. One is level 37 I think and hasnt done any of it actually, damn good archer though.
My second character decided after the first dragon he would leave that shiz to others, and went on to other things. My main though always ends up returning home and going on quests with his spouse, perfectly healthy plan for a couple, heading into ruinins and punching ancient dragons haha.